FAMILY OF SECRETS

In this Cino sisters picture-book guide to body safety, young readers learn when secrets are okay and when they’re not.

“In the very back corner of everyone’s MIND, lives the Family of Secrets, wild and divine,” the book begins. Each member deals with a different kind of confidential information: Surprise is excited for birthdays and confetti, for instance, and Trust safely deals with “passwords and garage codes.” Unsafe, however, is “unlike the rest”: “What happened was NOT her fault / and cannot be undone.” The family gathers around Unsafe and encourages her to tell a Safe Adult her secret, assuring her that if “someone touched your body / or asked you to do the same, / they are in the wrong, / we need to know their name.” After Unsafe tells a counselor, she gets a new name—Brave—and the family celebrates. This picture book addresses a daunting topic, but the authors’ choice to use rhyme lends a gentleness to serious information without making it scary. Blakeborough’s watercolor illustrations complement the text perfectly; the amorphous, bloblike family members feel expressive and alive. The book helpfully includes a FAQ on body safety (“How do I know if I have a safe or unsafe secret?”), and a list of Safe Adults, including teachers and social workers.

An ideal approach to an important and challenging subject.