This is a brave, lucid book, and Berg and Wiseman deserve great credit for their readiness to ask tough questions.
A wide-ranging look at why more and more women are choosing not to have children.
For centuries, having children was viewed as an inevitable life duty to be approached without much thought about the personal and philosophical consequences. However, in the past couple of decades, there has been a significant shift in opinion, particularly in Western countries, with an increasing number of women not having children, either as a conscious decision or because they are unable to make a decision at all. Berg and Wiseman, editors at The Point magazine (Berg is also a professor of philosophy at the Hebrew University of Jerusalem), dig into the reasons for this trend. Each author offers deeply felt essays about their personal experiences, and they draw on a range of survey data and interviews. Many women feel caught between social and family pressures and the desire to keep hard-won autonomy. Often, the decision to not have children is entirely practical, with financial and career concerns weighing heavily. Other women have made the decision because they see the future as a series of rolling disasters, mainly linked to climate change and pushed along by an avalanche of apocalyptic news reports and fear-mongering books. This connects to another group, which has adopted the nihilistic attitude that not just they, but everyone, should remain childless, as humanity is essentially a parasite that continues to destroy the Earth. Ultimately, Berg and Wiseman are careful to avoid a prescriptive conclusion. The real point is to make a definitive choice rather than drift into motherhood by default. “It is because having children is such a genuine commitment that only you can determine if it is the right one for you,” they conclude.
This is a brave, lucid book, and Berg and Wiseman deserve great credit for their readiness to ask tough questions.Pub Date: June 11, 2024
ISBN: 9781250276131
Page Count: 336
Publisher: St. Martin's
Review Posted Online: Feb. 1, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 15, 2024
Maher calls out idiocy wherever he sees it, with a comedic delivery that veers between a stiletto and a sledgehammer.
The comedian argues that the arts of moderation and common sense must be reinvigorated.
Some people are born snarky, some become snarky, and some have snarkiness thrust upon them. Judging from this book, Maher—host of HBO’s Real Time program and author of The New New Rules and When You Ride Alone, You Ride With bin Laden—is all three. As a comedian, he has a great deal of leeway to make fun of people in politics, and he often delivers hilarious swipes with a deadpan face. The author describes himself as a traditional liberal, with a disdain for Republicans (especially the MAGA variety) and a belief in free speech and personal freedom. He claims that he has stayed much the same for more than 20 years, while the left, he argues, has marched toward intolerance. He sees an addiction to extremism on both sides of the aisle, which fosters the belief that anyone who disagrees with you must be an enemy to be destroyed. However, Maher has always displayed his own streaks of extremism, and his scorched-earth takedowns eventually become problematic. The author has something nasty to say about everyone, it seems, and the sarcastic tone starts after more than 300 pages. As has been the case throughout his career, Maher is best taken in small doses. The book is worth reading for the author’s often spot-on skewering of inept politicians and celebrities, but it might be advisable to occasionally dip into it rather than read the whole thing in one sitting. Some parts of the text are hilarious, but others are merely insulting. Maher is undeniably talented, but some restraint would have produced a better book.
Maher calls out idiocy wherever he sees it, with a comedic delivery that veers between a stiletto and a sledgehammer.Pub Date: May 21, 2024
ISBN: 9781668051351
Page Count: 384
Publisher: Simon & Schuster
Review Posted Online: March 5, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 1, 2024
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A fierce, penetrating, and empowering call for change.
Artist and activist Vaid-Menon demonstrates how the normativity of the gender binary represses creativity and inflicts physical and emotional violence.
The author, whose parents emigrated from India, writes about how enforcement of the gender binary begins before birth and affects people in all stages of life, with people of color being especially vulnerable due to Western conceptions of gender as binary. Gender assignments create a narrative for how a person should behave, what they are allowed to like or wear, and how they express themself. Punishment of nonconformity leads to an inseparable link between gender and shame. Vaid-Menon challenges familiar arguments against gender nonconformity, breaking them down into four categories—dismissal, inconvenience, biology, and the slippery slope (fear of the consequences of acceptance). Headers in bold font create an accessible navigation experience from one analysis to the next. The prose maintains a conversational tone that feels as intimate and vulnerable as talking with a best friend. At the same time, the author's turns of phrase in moments of deep insight ring with precision and poetry. In one reflection, they write, “the most lethal part of the human body is not the fist; it is the eye. What people see and how people see it has everything to do with power.” While this short essay speaks honestly of pain and injustice, it concludes with encouragement and an invitation into a future that celebrates transformation.
A fierce, penetrating, and empowering call for change. (writing prompt) (Nonfiction. 14-adult)Pub Date: June 2, 2020
ISBN: 978-0-593-09465-5
Page Count: 64
Publisher: Penguin Workshop
Review Posted Online: March 14, 2020
Kirkus Reviews Issue: April 1, 2020
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