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THE OTHER TALK by Brendan Kiely Kirkus Star

THE OTHER TALK

Reckoning With Our White Privilege

by Brendan Kiely

Pub Date: Sept. 21st, 2021
ISBN: 978-1-5344-9404-6
Publisher: Caitlyn Dlouhy/Atheneum

White people don’t need to have “The Talk” about how to survive racism—they need to have a different talk about taking responsibility for and trying to change it.

Jason Reynolds introduces this informal memoir about young adult author Kiely’s experiences of Whiteness, which also serves as a call to action for White people to make similar reckonings. With humility and feeling, Kiely narrates his growing understanding of White privilege: that “what we’ve earned often comes at the expense of other people not being able to earn it as easily.” He mixes pithy anecdotes from his own life with trenchant statistics and historical context that make clear the huge extent to which people in power have “legalized, institutionalized, and systematized racism in America.” One section lays out all the opportunities Kiely’s White grandfather had to build wealth for his family, starting with the GI Bill, alongside all the ways these opportunities were denied to veterans of the Global Majority (a phrase he credits learning from Tiffany Jewell’s This Book Is Anti-Racist). His personal stories are equally demonstrative: When teenage Kiely was pulled over for reckless speeding, the police officer let him off with caring, paternal instructions to “go home, be safe, and keep your friends safe.” Kiely doesn’t mince words when it comes to accountability, but his conversational tone invites readers to grow with him.

Well-executed and long overdue.

(author's note, endnotes, bibliography) (Nonfiction. 12-18)