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BIG FREAKIN’ CHANGE

HOW TO GAIN CONFIDENCE BY STEPPING OUT BEFORE YOU ARE READY

A briskly paced guide for those looking to make changes but needing a push to get started.

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In this self-help book, choreographer and business coach Poppitt discusses the positive aspects of taking life-changing actions before one feels 100% ready to do so.

Most people have felt stuck at some point in their lives—knowing they should find a new job, leave a broken relationship, or jumpstart their dream career. However, while it’s easy to know what needs to be done, actually doing it can be difficult, as Poppitt points out in these pages. Many feel that they must wait for the perfect moment, yet the author—a successful entrepreneur, accomplished dancer for 20 years, and coach to thousands of fellow dancers and entrepreneurs—argues that “readiness is not a state of being but a feeling that comes after you take action.” In other words, a courageous task must come first, because “you develop confidence through taking action, not before.” She draws on numerous sources, including cited studies and tips from other self-help books, to back up her solid advice. A graphic of her eight-step “Get Unstuck, Cycle of Change Model” appears repeatedly, so that readers can easily follow each step, from “Acknowledge you’re stuck” to “Unlock your confidence” (“Each time you embrace change, your tolerance for it increases, as does your resiliency”). Importantly, the book takes a deep dive into aspects of human nature that, even with the best step-by-step guides, make change difficult, such as feelings of rejection and fear. Her own personal anecdotes are relatable and support every major point, as in a late account of a hike in a storm that taught her the importance of embracing changes in plans. It’s an engaging, fast-paced read, and although it’s specifically written for an audience of women, all readers can benefit from its message.

A briskly paced guide for those looking to make changes but needing a push to get started.

Pub Date: June 17, 2025

ISBN: 9781774585580

Page Count: 248

Publisher: Page Two

Review Posted Online: May 26, 2025

Kirkus Reviews Issue: July 15, 2025

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INTIMIDATING SHADES

WHY DOES MY SISTER HATE ME?

A stiff saga of righteousness overcoming a bad seed.

Skin color fuels sibling rivalries in this family melodrama.

Vernon and Verlene Mays, a multiracial couple in DeKalb, Texas, pass on a rainbow of complexions to their four children. Family discord ensues as their eldest daughter Verna, a light-skinned beauty, conceives an intense loathing for her darker, chubbier sister Viola Grace for no clear reason aside from Viola Grace’s unfashionable looks, studiousness and angelic disposition. Verna’s meanness blossoms in high school; she cuts classes, hangs with bad girls and sighs and rolls her eyes at everything her family does. Sounds pretty typical for a teenager, but Verlene, a woman with strict Christian values, is not one to brook a jot of rebelliousness in a child and packs her daughter off to a church boarding school. Verna runs away, taking with her the story’s sole element of trouble and complexity; with her off the stage for many chapters, the novel becomes a staid chronicle of happiness and achievement. Viola does brilliantly in college and medical school and acquires an upstanding surgeon boyfriend; her brother Vernon, Jr. and sister Vernice are also paragons. Verna-less, the family gathers for joyous yuletide celebrations (primly devoid of the “pagan symbolism” of the Christmas tree) where they toast their successes and give thanks to God before rushing out to buy new Bibles. “ ‘God is good all the time, and everything is just fine,’ ” Viola Grace observes in a fitting summary of most of the narrative. It’s a relief when the prodigal Verna finally resurfaces, beaten unconscious, with years of hard living under her belt; the tearful reunions have hardly subsided when a new rivalry develops over Verna’s neglected children, whom Viola Grace has taken in. Verna is an interesting character—bruised, often nasty, aching over her estrangement from her censorious family. Unfortunately, the author disapproves of her as strongly as the other characters do; the story is so intent on deploring Verna and applauding her perfect siblings that we never learn what makes her tick.

A stiff saga of righteousness overcoming a bad seed.

Pub Date: April 1, 2010

ISBN: 978-1-4415-8934-7

Page Count: 188

Publisher: Xlibris

Review Posted Online: July 19, 2010

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THE VALKYRIES

AN ENCOUNTER WITH ANGELS

A facile New Age story in which the author and his wife are initiated into the cult of angels by a band of women bikers in the Mojave Desert. Coelho (The Alchemist, 1993) tells how, at the bidding of his "Master," a wealthy businessman, he and his wife, Chris, go off into the desert for 40 days to look for his guardian angel. They find their enlightenment first from Gene, a young man who lives in a trailer, and finally from eight women, known as the Valkyries, who roam the desert on motorcycles and whose wild leader, Valhalla, becomes the couple's mystagogue. Coelho's basic message is that Paradise is open and angels are present if only we break the pact of our self-betrayal and learn to conquer fear and the distractions of our "second mind." Unfortunately, he fails to go anywhere with this potentially exciting but hardly original vision. What he offers is a kind of doctrinal salad in which belief in angels, channeling, and casual sex are mixed with references to Magic rites, Catholic worship, and reincarnation. Coelho uses his characters to emphasize the dubious position that spiritual knowledge can be gained without any connection to how one lives. At times his wisdom turns out to be the familiar exhortation to follow our dreams, and he asserts, without clarification, that we are all manifestations of the Absolute. Coelho's ignorance and superficiality are most blatant when he tells us that St. Mary of Egypt was canonized for her promiscuity and is remembered by almost no one today, whereas in fact, she was converted during her famous visit to Jerusalem, spent the rest of her life as a penitent, and is solemnly commemorated every year by the Orthodox Church all over the world. More pap for the spiritually challenged.

Pub Date: Sept. 1, 1995

ISBN: 0-06-251291-9

Page Count: 240

Publisher: N/A

Review Posted Online: May 19, 2010

Kirkus Reviews Issue: June 15, 1995

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