TRANS ANTHOLOGY PROJECT

A collection of statistics and personal stories from people within the trans community.

After years of research, Boylan, the parent of a transgender young adult, and Kirby, a therapist specializing in gender-diverse teens, have assembled a collection meant to both educate and inspire. Accounts from the transgender community and their parents—covering issues such as identity, coping with familial rejection, etc.—mix with more encyclopedic information, such as the definitions of terms like biological sex and gender. Occasional graphics feature answers to questions such as, “How would you describe gender dysphoria in 10 words or less?” The authors explore all aspects of the transgender journey, from the idea that not all “gender-diverse” people feel the need to medically transition to becoming an ally. Each section begins with an excerpt from Rula Sinara’s Just Embrace, while occasional boxes feature “Thoughts from a Therapist…” that offer a professional’s advice for parents (on teens exploring gender diversity, for example, or desiring a legal name change). The final section includes the results from two surveys in which 150 additional participants answered questions like, “What has been the hardest part of your gender journey?” Boylan and Kirby approach the subject with openness and compassion, exploring not only the basics behind the trans experience, but also more peripheral topics, like autism (which is common in the trans community) and religion (which is often a tricky topic for trans people and their families). But the true emotional impact occurs when the authors hand over the stage to those who are trans: “They want to erase us. They say they hate the sin and love the sinner as they silently watch us die. And the reason is that we make them uncomfortable because we are different, and they could never be. And that is our superpower.” With an extensive list of resources, as well as intimate anecdotes, this anthology could prove to be a true lifeline for trans youth and adults.

An emotional, engaging, and informative look at the real-life struggles and triumphs of trans people.