A wise and pragmatic life guide for teens.
Fidelman’s nonfiction guide offers wide-ranging advice for teenagers.
The author lodges a social media lure right in the subtitle of his nonfiction debut, but he’s very much not singing the praises of the social media app TikTok, which he views as a pernicious influence in the lives of teens. Rather, when laying out his precepts for his teen readers, he wants them to use the handy acronym “TICK TOCK”: T for “Taming Social Media,” I for “Inspiring Hard Work,” C for “Choosing a Mentor,” K for “Knowing Your Struggles,” T for “Treasure Beyond Money,” O for “Owning Your Passion,” C for “Cultivating Relationships,” and K for “Knowledge Expansion.” Fidelman uses each section of his book to elaborate on these principles, incorporating stories along the way about anonymized teens facing some of the issues he raises (“Joe,” for instance, “sees his friends having fun but also wasting time and wonders if he should be working at all”). The author frequently cites public figures like Patti Stanger, star of The Millionaire Matchmaker television program (“The reason billionaires become billionaires is because they do the things they don’t want to do first,” she’s quoted. “You got to get the crap out of the way so you can do the fun stuff”). Fidelman himself is very much present in the book’s narrative, consistently adopting the friendly, no-nonsense tone of a trusted old brother with lines like, “In the last section, we talked about how money isn’t always the answer, right?” He strikes a winning note by taking teen challenges completely seriously, comparing life to riding a dragon that requires careful control at all times. Adolescents feeling adrift in a world without serious, caring mentoring will find a good deal of moral and practical clarity in these pages—and so will plenty of older readers.
A wise and pragmatic life guide for teens.Pub Date: Nov. 3, 2023
ISBN: 9781665752435
Page Count: 136
Publisher: Archway Publishing
Review Posted Online: Dec. 15, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 1, 2024
Review Program: Kirkus Indie
Readers unfamiliar with the anecdotal material Greene presents may find interesting avenues to pursue, but they should...
Greene (The 33 Strategies of War, 2007, etc.) believes that genius can be learned if we pay attention and reject social conformity.
The author suggests that our emergence as a species with stereoscopic, frontal vision and sophisticated hand-eye coordination gave us an advantage over earlier humans and primates because it allowed us to contemplate a situation and ponder alternatives for action. This, along with the advantages conferred by mirror neurons, which allow us to intuit what others may be thinking, contributed to our ability to learn, pass on inventions to future generations and improve our problem-solving ability. Throughout most of human history, we were hunter-gatherers, and our brains are engineered accordingly. The author has a jaundiced view of our modern technological society, which, he writes, encourages quick, rash judgments. We fail to spend the time needed to develop thorough mastery of a subject. Greene writes that every human is “born unique,” with specific potential that we can develop if we listen to our inner voice. He offers many interesting but tendentious examples to illustrate his theory, including Einstein, Darwin, Mozart and Temple Grandin. In the case of Darwin, Greene ignores the formative intellectual influences that shaped his thought, including the discovery of geological evolution with which he was familiar before his famous voyage. The author uses Grandin's struggle to overcome autistic social handicaps as a model for the necessity for everyone to create a deceptive social mask.
Readers unfamiliar with the anecdotal material Greene presents may find interesting avenues to pursue, but they should beware of the author's quirky, sometimes misleading brush-stroke characterizations.Pub Date: Nov. 13, 2012
ISBN: 978-0-670-02496-4
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: Sept. 12, 2012
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Oct. 1, 2012
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The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.
A follow-on to the author’s garbled but popular 48 Laws of Power, promising that readers will learn how to win friends and influence people, to say nothing of outfoxing all those “toxic types” out in the world.
Greene (Mastery, 2012, etc.) begins with a big sell, averring that his book “is designed to immerse you in all aspects of human behavior and illuminate its root causes.” To gauge by this fat compendium, human behavior is mostly rotten, a presumption that fits with the author’s neo-Machiavellian program of self-validation and eventual strategic supremacy. The author works to formula: First, state a “law,” such as “confront your dark side” or “know your limits,” the latter of which seems pale compared to the Delphic oracle’s “nothing in excess.” Next, elaborate on that law with what might seem to be as plain as day: “Losing contact with reality, we make irrational decisions. That is why our success often does not last.” One imagines there might be other reasons for the evanescence of glory, but there you go. Finally, spin out a long tutelary yarn, seemingly the longer the better, to shore up the truism—in this case, the cometary rise and fall of one-time Disney CEO Michael Eisner, with the warning, “his fate could easily be yours, albeit most likely on a smaller scale,” which ranks right up there with the fortuneteller’s “I sense that someone you know has died" in orders of probability. It’s enough to inspire a new law: Beware of those who spend too much time telling you what you already know, even when it’s dressed up in fresh-sounding terms. “Continually mix the visceral with the analytic” is the language of a consultant’s report, more important-sounding than “go with your gut but use your head, too.”
The Stoics did much better with the much shorter Enchiridion.Pub Date: Oct. 23, 2018
ISBN: 978-0-525-42814-5
Page Count: 580
Publisher: Viking
Review Posted Online: July 30, 2018
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Aug. 15, 2018
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