THE IMPATIENT

Two Cameroonian sisters navigate the trials of arranged marriages.

According to the customs of their Fulani Muslim household, teenage sisters Ramla and Hindou—who live in a massive compound with their father’s four wives and 28 other children—have always known their fates rest with their family’s patriarchs, eager to “finally offload their responsibilities by entrusting us, still virgins, to other men.” Though Ramla and Hindou anticipate this eventuality, it’s no less distressing when the two are unceremoniously promised to, respectively, a much older businessman and a perpetually drunk cousin. “Patience, my girls! Munyal! That is the most valuable component of marriage and of life,” the two are instructed as their weddings approach, and a highly specific marital code emerges from family’s whispers and warnings—rules range from “Do not be scatter-brained” to “Valorize him so that he will honor you.” Intelligent and strong-willed Ramla, who dreams of becoming a pharmacist, is set to marry Alhadji Issa, a respected businessman with a beautiful and possessive wife; meanwhile, Hindou dreads a union with her drink- and drug-fueled cousin, Moubarak. As the weddings approach, the sisters mourn the lives they’d envisioned for themselves; and once they’re living with their husbands, they must contend with entirely new issues of power, autonomy, and social propriety. When one girl begins to encounter abuse, she must decide between upholding familial respectability and saving herself, bringing the family’s delicate equilibrium to a crisis point. In this English-language debut—broken into sections narrated by Ramla, Hindou, and Ramla's co-wife, Safira—Amal burrows deeply into the immensely private Fulani world of girls and women. Though the girls’ relationships with their husbands are sometimes flatly rendered, the book's real complexity lies in its finely textured depictions of relationships between women—mother and daughter, co-wives, sisters—full of jealousy, compassion, and emotional energy. Though it never takes any particularly original twists or turns, its excavation of characters’ emotional states and of a specific marital culture is engaging.

Revealing if sometimes predictable.