WAYS TO MAKE FRIENDS

Friendship can blossom in unexpected ways.

“To make friends you should sit under a huge tree,” states an unseen narrator. And so, a young toad does, passing the minutes in the cool shade while waiting for a friend. Or perhaps rescuing a bee in a fountain might result in a new friend. So what if the insect is quick to anger? After all, “sometimes bees can be bad tempered.” To make friends, consider saying hi 40 times to “the shy kid who never says hi to anyone,” dressing up as fruit and sharing fruit, or even befriending a cactus that’s “nice and calm and quiet” and a great secret keeper. And when the day grows long and fatigue sets in, spending time with oneself—to read, draw, imagine—is also rewarding. With all of these tips and more, this sublime picture book offers gentle guidance to all readers, from reluctant youngsters in prickly social situations to more experienced friendship seekers needing a refresher. Peppered among moments of pure hilarity and suggested creative outlets are nuggets of encouragement meant to bolster compassion. Featuring a cast of excellently depicted anthropomorphic animals, the colorful, buoyant artwork—predominantly in orangy reds and mint greens—impresses due to its flair and secondary details. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

A refreshing, candid consideration of making friends with others at one’s own tempo.