THE BEAR-SHAPED HOLE

Some holes are very hard to fill.

Loss is difficult to handle, even for adults. This book, a companion to the creators’ The Hare-Shaped Hole (2024), prepares children for the greatest one of all: death. Expressed in sometimes-clunky verse, the narrative follows a young Gerda and her wise, older friend Orlo. These two bears share rapturous times together. Inevitably, things change. Orlo noticeably slows down, and Gerda asks what’s wrong. Orlo explains he’s ill and that he will soon die. Gerda’s filled with anger—one of the stages of grief—and runs away. The digital illustrations do a commendable job of conveying Gerda’s feelings: In one scene, she flees, trailed by black straggly lines that later threaten to engulf her. But, as the text points out calmly, “You can’t outrun sorrow. You can’t outrun pain.” Gerda returns to Orlo and receives—what else?—a huge bear hug. He validates her feelings and assures her that, eventually, she’ll feel happiness again: Gerda will make many memories to fill the bear-shaped hole he’ll leave behind—and time now to create more. Gerda cries when Orlo passes; this, the book explains, is natural and OK. But she’s buoyed by their preparations and, later, eager to let new friendships into her heart. This is a reassuring message, while the colorful, cartoonish illustrations give the text an uplifting feel despite the difficult subject matter; the protagonists’ bond is lovely.

Calming guidance for little ones grappling with sorrow.