REMIND ME

A young elephant copes with his grandmother’s progressive memory loss.

Eldon loves asking his grandmother Big Ella to remind him of stories from his past. When Big Ella starts asking Eldon for reminders, at first he thinks it’s funny (she asks where her hat is while already wearing it). Eldon doesn’t understand what’s going on; he reacts by asking her for even more stories. For a time, the mutual reminders work well in maintaining the normalcy in their relationship. But that changes when Big Ella can’t remember their way home or recognize her house. Worse, finally Big Ella has to ask Eldon to remind her of his name and then asks him who she is. He replies: “You are my very own Big Ella! I’ve loved you and you’ve loved me forever! I will always remember that and always remind you!” The spare, efficient text allows the artwork to do the heavy emotional lifting. The choice to make the protagonists anthropomorphized elephants is an inspired one, given the animals’ reputed memories, and makes Big Ella’s loss even more poignant. Eldon and Big Ella are highly expressive—their trunks, ears, and facial folds are exquisitely and precisely drawn to show mood—and softened by the beautiful watercolor shading. The sad subject matter is balanced by the loving details and the humor in Eldon’s remembered moments. (This book was reviewed digitally.)

Simple without being oversimplified and reassuring, countering fears with love.