SADIQ WANTS TO STITCH

In this book that looks at gender stereotyping from a male perspective, young Sadiq loves to stitch, like his mother.

Unfortunately, in his community, only women and girls embroider beautiful patterns on rugs, while men and boys tend to their sheep and goats. How can Sadiq convince Ammi of his passion for stitching? Sadiq is a nomadic Bakarwal goatherd in the mountainous region of Kashmir in India. This picture book gives an authentic peek into the lush meadows and high mountains where his tribe travels to find the best grass for their herd, sipping their noon-cha (tea with milk, salt, and baking powder) to keep warm. It also highlights gender stereotypes in his community, which allow only women to work on the unique free-form embroidery that Sadiq loves—so he stitches in secret. When Ammi falls ill and is unable to complete a commission, Sadiq surprises her with a rug he embroidered, causing her to reverse her position abruptly to support his needlework ambitions. Colorful watercolor illustrations show expansive landscapes, vibrant embroidered rugs, and the dark-haired, dark-eyed, fair-skinned Muslim Bakarwal people wearing traditional clothes and headgear. The author’s note at the end of the book gives a few more details about this small shepherding community. There is no glossary or pronunciation guide for young readers unfamiliar with the culture.

Defying gender stereotypes, this book touches upon important topics.