THOSE WE THROW AWAY ARE DIAMONDS

Dogon, who has a graduate degree from NYU, spent 20 years in refugee camps in Rwanda. Born into a cattle-farming Tutsi family in the Bagogwe tribe, by age 3 his idyllic world was shattered when the genocide in neighboring Rwanda spilled over into his country. The family was forced to flee because of killers tracking Dogon’s father, a village leader. “My father appeared at our door, bleeding, and from that moment on, every story was about killing,” writes the author. “I stopped being a child….I stopped having a home. I became a refugee.” The Bagogwe were almost entirely displaced, the survivors shunted from one refugee camp to another, suffering gruesome, random bloodshed and squalid living conditions. By 1996, the family had consolidated in a camp in northern Rwanda, subsisting on fitful international charity and fending off hunger and despair: “Being a refugee meant having to reconcile your gratitude to Rwanda and the [United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees], with an increasing feeling of being isolated and forgotten.” With the assistance of journalist Krajeski, Dogon movingly, tragically describes the trauma he and his family endured. The pain was so deep that even among them, they could not talk about what they had witnessed, which led to a terrible, debilitating silence. As a hardworking student, he passed his national exam, and though denied a promised scholarship because of his refugee status, he was able to attend university in the capital. Ultimately, he got sponsorship from tech executive Tim Armstrong, the former CEO of AOL, and Armstrong paid for his education. Now, Dogon is able to advocate for the plight of all who suffer the terrors of civil war. Throughout, he delivers effectively vivid details of his life and culture, and it’s clear that he is dedicated to helping others in similar terrible circumstances.