by Rich Benjamin ‧ RELEASE DATE: Feb. 11, 2025
An evocative, wise memoir of a multilayered search for roots.
An inquisitive scholar explores his family’s hidden past.
“Unspeakable things, unspoken.” That much described the silence that shrouded Benjamin’s mother, and, as he chronicles in this searching memoir, for good reason: Traumatized as a child, she became an advocate for children who had suffered violence while enabling Benjamin’s father’s violence at home. “Don’t tell the neighbors,” she would say after his father administered floggings that, Benjamin writes wryly, “were a rational, bourgeois affair” intended to punish Benjamin’s seemingly unshakable habit of getting into trouble over small transgressions. Outside the home and the neighbors’ gaze, the family was the soul of propriety, his mother a natural-born aristocrat, the daughter of a short-reigned president of Haiti. Therein lie some of the secrets that Benjamin, author of Searching for Whitopia (2009), means to tease out in order to relate the “disremembered years” of his mother’s life in Haiti, “lost stanzas in an epic poem.” Interwoven into the family tale is a memoir of Benjamin’s own life as a gay man whose mother, having finally learned of his sexuality, sent him a clipping from the New York Times headlined “HIV Rates Spiking Among Young Gay Men of Color.” Benjamin’s often arch sense of humor shines through these pages, even as he relates the “toxic antics” of his youth, antics that, way back in the pre-smartphone days of yore, happily went unrecorded: “We were fabulous when we were fabulous, and when we dressed up, we did it for ourselves, for one another. Everything was communal, exclusive, not broadcast and needy for likes.” Although many secrets remain, Benjamin did learn a few things from his mother that have clearly stood him well in difficult circumstances, as when she revealed her recipe for survival: “When you’ve been to hell and back…nothing can ever destroy you.”
An evocative, wise memoir of a multilayered search for roots.Pub Date: Feb. 11, 2025
ISBN: 9780593317396
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Pantheon
Review Posted Online: Dec. 13, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2025
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by David Grann ‧ RELEASE DATE: April 18, 2017
Dogged original research and superb narrative skills come together in this gripping account of pitiless evil.
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Greed, depravity, and serial murder in 1920s Oklahoma.
During that time, enrolled members of the Osage Indian nation were among the wealthiest people per capita in the world. The rich oil fields beneath their reservation brought millions of dollars into the tribe annually, distributed to tribal members holding "headrights" that could not be bought or sold but only inherited. This vast wealth attracted the attention of unscrupulous whites who found ways to divert it to themselves by marrying Osage women or by having Osage declared legally incompetent so the whites could fleece them through the administration of their estates. For some, however, these deceptive tactics were not enough, and a plague of violent death—by shooting, poison, orchestrated automobile accident, and bombing—began to decimate the Osage in what they came to call the "Reign of Terror." Corrupt and incompetent law enforcement and judicial systems ensured that the perpetrators were never found or punished until the young J. Edgar Hoover saw cracking these cases as a means of burnishing the reputation of the newly professionalized FBI. Bestselling New Yorker staff writer Grann (The Devil and Sherlock Holmes: Tales of Murder, Madness, and Obsession, 2010, etc.) follows Special Agent Tom White and his assistants as they track the killers of one extended Osage family through a closed local culture of greed, bigotry, and lies in pursuit of protection for the survivors and justice for the dead. But he doesn't stop there; relying almost entirely on primary and unpublished sources, the author goes on to expose a web of conspiracy and corruption that extended far wider than even the FBI ever suspected. This page-turner surges forward with the pacing of a true-crime thriller, elevated by Grann's crisp and evocative prose and enhanced by dozens of period photographs.
Dogged original research and superb narrative skills come together in this gripping account of pitiless evil.Pub Date: April 18, 2017
ISBN: 978-0-385-53424-6
Page Count: 352
Publisher: Doubleday
Review Posted Online: Feb. 1, 2017
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2017
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by Elie Wiesel & translated by Marion Wiesel ‧ RELEASE DATE: Jan. 16, 2006
The author's youthfulness helps to assure the inevitable comparison with the Anne Frank diary although over and above the...
Elie Wiesel spent his early years in a small Transylvanian town as one of four children.
He was the only one of the family to survive what Francois Maurois, in his introduction, calls the "human holocaust" of the persecution of the Jews, which began with the restrictions, the singularization of the yellow star, the enclosure within the ghetto, and went on to the mass deportations to the ovens of Auschwitz and Buchenwald. There are unforgettable and horrifying scenes here in this spare and sombre memoir of this experience of the hanging of a child, of his first farewell with his father who leaves him an inheritance of a knife and a spoon, and of his last goodbye at Buchenwald his father's corpse is already cold let alone the long months of survival under unconscionable conditions.
Pub Date: Jan. 16, 2006
ISBN: 0374500010
Page Count: 120
Publisher: Hill & Wang
Review Posted Online: Oct. 7, 2011
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Jan. 15, 2006
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