by Stephanie Clare Smith ‧ RELEASE DATE: Feb. 13, 2024
A masterful literary memoir about caring for those responsible for our trauma.
A poet reflects on her traumatic upbringing.
When Smith, who also works as a clinical social worker and mediator for at-risk families, was 14, she spent the summer of 1973 retaking algebra while her mother went camping with a boyfriend. For “a month and a half,” Smith lived by herself in New Orleans, assuaging her loneliness by riding the streetcar up and down Saint Charles Avenue while standing beside a 29-year-old driver named Gifford. In a visceral passage, Smith describes how, one night, she was raped at knife point by a stranger while attempting to get a cheeseburger. When her mother was “unreachable” and her summer school teacher was unsympathetic, the author confided in Gifford, who cared for her initially but also initiated a confusing sexual relationship that she was too young to comprehend. In the years following these sexual assaults, Smith finally began to understand the role her mother’s neglect had played in her suffering, realizing “that the neglect was the engine that pulled the other parts forward.” During her childhood, though, Smith writes, “It never occurred to me that it should have occurred to my mother to do more to protect me. What you get is what you get.” When the author’s mother suffered from vascular dementia and Smith became her primary caretaker, she realized that she was finally getting what she’d always wanted: her mother’s consistent presence. But at what cost? This stunningly lyrical memoir is a profoundly insightful glimpse into the complex and frightening consequences of parental neglect. As Smith’s voice naturally evolves from alienated to intensely present, the impressively concise narrative alternates between ethereal observations about everything from space to spiders and gut punches of pain, shame, revelation, and redemption.
A masterful literary memoir about caring for those responsible for our trauma.Pub Date: Feb. 13, 2024
ISBN: 9781469678979
Page Count: 144
Publisher: Univ. of North Carolina
Review Posted Online: Oct. 28, 2023
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Dec. 1, 2023
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by Kristen Kish ‧ RELEASE DATE: April 22, 2025
Top Chef fans might savor this detailed account, but others will find it bland.
The Top Chef host describes her journey to new heights.
For those who don’t know, Kish is a “gay Korean adopted woman, born in Seoul, raised in Michigan” and “a chef, a character, a host, and a cultural communicator—as well as a human being with a beating heart.” Though this book covers every step of her journey, every restaurant job and television role, and also discusses her experience as an adoptee (very positive) and a queer woman (late bloomer), the storytelling is so straightforward, lacking in suspense, character development, or dialogue, that it is basically a long version of its (longish) “About the Author.” Seemingly dramatic situations are not dramatized—when she was eliminated on her first Top Chef run, she assures us that she did the best she could, and drops it. “I can spare you the gory details (bouillabaisse and big personalities were involved).” Later, she cites a belief in protecting the privacy of others to omit the story of her first relationship with a woman. With no character development, neither does the reader get to know those who fall outside the privacy zone, like her best friend, Steph, and her wife, Bianca. When she gets mad, she says things like, “It’s a gross understatement to say I was crushed, beyond frustrated, and furious with the situation.” The fact that “I’ve never been a big reader” does not come as a surprise. It is more surprising when she confesses that “I believe the universe is selective about the moments in which it introduces life-changing prospects.”
Top Chef fans might savor this detailed account, but others will find it bland.Pub Date: April 22, 2025
ISBN: 9780316580915
Page Count: 368
Publisher: Little, Brown
Review Posted Online: Feb. 15, 2025
Kirkus Reviews Issue: March 15, 2025
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by Amy Tan ; illustrated by Amy Tan ‧ RELEASE DATE: April 23, 2024
An ebullient nature lover’s paean to birds.
A charming bird journey with the bestselling author.
In his introduction to Tan’s “nature journal,” David Allen Sibley, the acclaimed ornithologist, nails the spirit of this book: a “collection of delightfully quirky, thoughtful, and personal observations of birds in sketches and words.” For years, Tan has looked out on her California backyard “paradise”—oaks, periwinkle vines, birch, Japanese maple, fuchsia shrubs—observing more than 60 species of birds, and she fashions her findings into delightful and approachable journal excerpts, accompanied by her gorgeous color sketches. As the entries—“a record of my life”—move along, the author becomes more adept at identifying and capturing them with words and pencils. Her first entry is September 16, 2017: Shortly after putting up hummingbird feeders, one of the tiny, delicate creatures landed on her hand and fed. “We have a relationship,” she writes. “I am in love.” By August 2018, her backyard “has become a menagerie of fledglings…all learning to fly.” Day by day, she has continued to learn more about the birds, their activities, and how she should relate to them; she also admits mistakes when they occur. In December 2018, she was excited to observe a Townsend’s Warbler—“Omigod! It’s looking at me. Displeased expression.” Battling pesky squirrels, Tan deployed Hot Pepper Suet to keep them away, and she deterred crows by hanging a fake one upside down. The author also declared war on outdoor cats when she learned they kill more than 1 billion birds per year. In May 2019, she notes that she spends $250 per month on beetle larvae. In June 2019, she confesses “spending more hours a day staring at birds than writing. How can I not?” Her last entry, on December 15, 2022, celebrates when an eating bird pauses, “looks and acknowledges I am there.”
An ebullient nature lover’s paean to birds.Pub Date: April 23, 2024
ISBN: 9780593536131
Page Count: 320
Publisher: Knopf
Review Posted Online: Jan. 19, 2024
Kirkus Reviews Issue: Feb. 15, 2024
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