LOVE LIKE CHOCOLATE

A family welcomes a child from another culture.

The older sibling describes the family’s experience: “We start by helping her feel safe. We listen. We go slow. We show her how love works in our family. And in our family, love works best with chocolate.” Important days (and sad ones, too) are observed with a different treat, from chocolate cake to cupcakes to hot chocolate. The younger child shares her favorite recipe, and together the family whips up “towers of Thai honey toast, mounds of chocolate mango mochi, and a castle of red velvet dreams.” Inspired by the author’s own family (her youngest was adopted from Thailand), the story is told from the perspective of the older sibling, leaving a missed opportunity to give voice to the adoptee’s experiences; although the narrator asks the younger sister several questions (and she points out her favorite recipe in a book), she speaks only at the very end, which may suggest the time it can take for an adoptee to become comfortable in a new environment. Digitally composited watercolor artwork features an inviting mixed palette of colors that exude connection. The adoptive family presents white, while the adoptee has brown skin and curly hair; hints in text and art suggest she has a Thai background. Extended family and friends have varying skin tones and hair textures.

Gentle and loving.