THE HOME I WORKED TO MAKE

A collection of interviews with Syrian refugees about their conceptions of home.

When Pearlman, author of We Crossed a Bridge and It Trembled, began interviewing Syrian refugees in 2011, she thought she was going to write about the Arab Spring. When the theme of home emerged from her conversations with more than 500 participants, she began to seek deeper truths. “Commentators have analyzed the Syrian war through lenses such as protest, violence, geopolitics, sectarianism, extremism, and refugee crisis,” she writes. “Fewer have considered what Syrians’ extraordinary experiences can teach us about something so commonplace that it touches every human life: home.” Pearlman’s inquiry leads to a set of stunningly diverse stories that paint a picture of not only the traumatic displacement of the Syrian diaspora, but also the profundity with which Syrians approach their exile from their country. In one story, a gay refugee defines home as a place where he can be himself. After a rocky start in Trogen, Germany, one refugee’s insistence on being helpful to his new community resulted in a loving relationship with a German woman who insisted that he call her “Oma,” the German word for grandmother. In Turkey, a devastating earthquake helped a Syrian Australian man realize the depth of care he could expect from his newfound Australian community. In another moving story, a doctor chronicles a life-changing experience in Khartoum, Sudan, that reconnected her with her faith. Pearlman weaves these tales together beautifully, artfully teasing out their commonalities, complexities, and contradictions. No matter how dark the content, the author effectively centers the voices of refugees, drawing unexpected and incisive conclusions from her rich data. Pearlman includes a detailed chronology that runs up to August 2023.

A stunningly curated text that “strikes at the core of what it means to exist as a person in the world.”